Learning to let go of someone you love is crucial when manifesting because if not, it can create emotional clutter, lower your vibration, and block the way for new opportunities.
Letting go of someone can come with complex emotions and much pain. However, beautiful things can also come from letting someone go. It is often the only way to learn self-resilience, acceptance, and self-worth.
Like song lyrics, good poems can also portray lessons within it’s words.
Whether it’s your first love, a best friend, or a family member, read these 26 poems about letting go of someone you love to see the power of poetry and the power of each letting go poem.
Poems about Letting Go of Someone You Love
1. "Farewell My Love" by Emily Dickinson
Parting is all we know of heaven, And all we need of hell, For love, when truly given, Bids no fond farewell.
2. "A Dream Within a Dream" by Edgar Allan Poe
All that we see or seem Is but a dream within a dream. So hard to let go, to set free, When love is but a memory.
3. "The Journey" by Mary Oliver
One day you finally knew what you had to do, and began, though the voices around you kept shouting their bad advice— though the whole house began to tremble and you felt the old tug at your ankles.
“Mend my life!” each voice cried. But you didn’t stop. You knew what you had to do.
4. "Parting" by Charlotte Brontë
There’s no use in weeping, Though we are condemned to part: There’s such a thing as keeping A remembrance in one’s heart.
5. "Goodbye My Lover" by James Blunt
You touched my heart, you touched my soul, You changed my life and all my goals. And love is blind and that I knew, When my heart was blinded by you. Goodbye my lover. Goodbye my friend. You have been the one. You have been the one for me.
6. "Remember" by Christina Rossetti
Remember me when I am gone away, Gone far away into the silent land; When you can no more hold me by the hand, Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
7. "After Love" by Sara Teasdale
There is no magic any more, We meet as other people do, You work no miracle for me Nor I for you.
8. "Separation" by W.S. Merwin
Your absence has gone through me Like thread through a needle. Everything I do is stitched with its color.
9. "On Letting Go" by Alice Walker
She let go. Without a thought or a word, she let go. She let go of the fear. She let go of the judgments. She let go of the confluence of opinions swarming around her head. She just let go.
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10. "When We Two Parted" by Lord Byron
When we two parted In silence and tears, Half broken-hearted To sever for years, Pale grew thy cheek and cold, Colder thy kiss; Truly that hour foretold Sorrow to this.
11. "Love's Farewell" by Michael Drayton
Since there’s no help, come let us kiss and part. Nay, I have done, you get no more of me; And I am glad, yea, glad with all my heart, That thus so cleanly I myself can free.
12. "For You" by Kenneth KochI
want to be with you, It is as simple, and as complicated as that. I want to be with you, So I am letting go.
13. "Remember Me" by Christina Rossetti
Remember me when I am gone away, Gone far away into the silent land; When you can no more hold me by the hand, Nor I half turn to go yet turning stay.
14. "Let Go" by Rainer Maria Rilke
Let everything happen to you: beauty and terror. Just keep going. No feeling is final. Don’t let yourself lose me. Nearby is the country they call life. You will know it by its seriousness. Give me your hand.
15. "The End of Love" by Samuel Beckett
Let us not waste our time in idle discourse! Let us do something, while we have the chance! It is not every day that we are needed.
16. "One Art" by Elizabeth Bishop
The art of losing isn’t hard to master; so many things seem filled with the intent to be lost that their loss is no disaster. Lose something every day. Accept the fluster of lost door keys, the hour badly spent. The art of losing isn’t hard to master.
Then practice losing farther, losing faster: places, and names, and where it was you meant to travel. None of these will bring disaster.
17. "Love After Love" by Derek Walcott
The time will come when, with elation, you will greet yourself arriving at your own door, in your own mirror, and each will smile at the other’s welcome.
18. "Letting Go" by Cheryl Savageau
The hardest part of letting go is knowing I had a hold on something that wasn’t there to hold.
19. "Hour" by Carol Ann Duffy
Love’s time’s beggar, but even a single hour,
bright as a dropped coin, makes love rich.
We find an hour together, spend it not on flowers
or wine, but the whole of the summer sky and a grass ditch.
For thousands of seconds we kiss; your hair
like treasure on the ground; the Midas light
turning your limbs to gold. Time slows, for here
we are millionaires, backhanding the night.
So nothing dark will end our shining hour,
no jewel hold a candle to the cuckoo spit
hung from the tipped grass blade. No chandelier
or spotlight see you better lit
than here. Now. Time hates love, wants love poor,
but love spins gold, gold, gold from straw.
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20. "Sonnet 87" by William Shakespeare
Farewell! thou art too dear for my possessing,
And like enough thou know’st thy estimate:
The charter of thy worth gives thee releasing;
My bonds in thee are all determinate.
For how do I hold thee but by thy granting?
And for that riches where is my deserving?
The cause of this fair gift in me is wanting,
And so my patent back again is swerving.
Thy self thou gav’st, thy own worth then not knowing,
Or me, to whom thou gav’st it, else mistaking;
So thy great gift, upon misprision growing,
Comes home again, on better judgement making.
Thus have I had thee, as a dream doth flatter,
In sleep a king, but waking no such matter.
21. "Reluctance" by Robert Frost
Out through the fields and the woods
And over the walls I have wended;
I have climbed the hills of view
And looked at the world, and descended;
I have come by the highway home,
And lo, it is ended.
The leaves are all dead on the ground,
Save those that the oak is keeping
To ravel them one by one
And let them go scraping and creeping
Out over the crusted snow,
When others are sleeping.
And the dead leaves lie huddled and still,
No longer blown hither and thither;
The last lone aster is gone;
The flowers of the witch hazel wither;
The heart is still aching to seek,
But the feet question ‘Whither?’
Ah, when to the heart of man
Was it ever less than a treason
To go with the drift of things,
To yield with a grace to reason,
And bow and accept the end
Of a love or a season?
22. "Never Give All the Heart" by William Butler Yeats
Never give all the heart, for love
Will hardly seem worth thinking of
When the tide turns; the lights of the heart
Burn dim, and vanish into the night.
But one delight will be but vanity;
And love never gives back the hurt
From the fangs of the truth, nor the sigh
Of it sways the vain belief.
Love will burn all through the years
Till Time’s wrecking hands
Destroy the fragile unity
Of passion’s brief command.
23. "The Clode and the Pebble" by William Blake
“Love seeketh not itself to please, Nor for itself hath any care, But for another gives its ease, And builds a Heaven in Hell’s despair.”
So sung a little Clod of Clay, Trodden with the cattle’s feet, But a Pebble of the brook Warbled out these metres meet:
“Love seeketh only Self to please, To bind another to its delight, Joys in another’s loss of ease, And builds a Hell in Heaven’s despite.”
24. "Adonais" by Percy Bysshe Shelley
This poem is about him mourning the death of his good friend, the contemporary poet, John Keats. Here is a snippet from the 55 stanza poem.
I weep for Adonais—he is dead! Oh, weep for Adonais! though our tears Thaw not the frost which binds so dear a head! And thou, sad Hour, selected from all years To mourn our loss, rouse thy obscure compeers, And teach them thine own sorrow, say:
“With me Died Adonais; till the Future dares Forget the Past, his fate and fame shall be An echo and a light unto eternity!”
25. "In Memoriam A.H.H." by Alfred, Lord Tennyson
This poem is pretty lengthy with over 130 sections. It does go over the idea of a new life after capturing the struggle to come to terms with loss.
Canto 27:
I envy not in any moods
The captive void of noble rage,
The linnet born within the cage,
That never knew the summer woods:
I envy not the beast that takes
His license in the field of time,
Unfetter’d by the sense of crime,
To whom a conscience never wakes;
Nor, what may count itself as blest,
The heart that never plighted troth
But stagnates in the weeds of sloth;
Nor any want-begotten rest.
I hold it true, whate’er befall;
I feel it, when I sorrow most;
‘Tis better to have loved and lost
26. "The Waste Land" by T.S. Eliot
Poems about letting go of someone you love by T.S. Eliot captures his own life dealing with the grief of his friend. He captures a better way to search for meaning after dealing with despair.
April is the cruellest month, breeding
Lilacs out of the dead land, mixing
Memory and desire, stirring
Dull roots with spring rain.
Winter kept us warm, covering
Earth in forgetful snow, feeding
A little life with dried tubers.
Summer surprised us, coming over the Starnbergersee
With a shower of rain; we stopped in the colonnade,
And went on in sunlight, into the Hofgarten,
And drank coffee, and talked for an hour.
Bin gar keine Russin, stamm’ aus Litauen, echt deutsch.
And when we were children, staying at the archduke’s,
My cousin’s, he took me out on a sled,
And I was frightened. He said, Marie,
Marie, hold on tight. And down we went.
In the mountains, there you feel free.
I read, much of the night, and go south in the winter.
Final Thoughts
Poems about letting go of someone you love can offer many noteworthy lessons. From most, you learn that great pain can come from not letting go of past love. Getting past this is essential because it can make it difficult to channel your energy into manifesting.
It’s also important to remember that you are a human being. It takes time to get over heart breaks. So lean on to a beautiful poem about letting go of love and start being gentle with yourself.
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Sabrina Valdivia
Spiritual Holistic Limited Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Coach
With a wealth of experience spanning more than 10 years, I have become a guiding light for those struggling with low self-esteem and anxiety, helping them rediscover their inner strength and self-worth.
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Having faced my own battles with low self-esteem and anxiety during my younger years, I intimately understood the challenges that many young women encounter in their lives.
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What a nice collection! I have read few of them earlier but all the sonnets are heart touching and an eye opening. Letting go is not easy but it takes time for your heart to recover from the scratch of love. But try is the best policy for yourself to live.
A lovely selection of poems.. letting go is one of the hardest things one has to do in life
Emotions come out more beautifully when they’re expressed through poems. These all about letting go but never be let go. Powerful and true!
Sad yet heart warming poems that really pinches ones heart while reading. You’ll know if a writing is effective if the message is really conveyed and the reader really feels the sadness while reading their work. That’s how I felt.
That is very true! And the ones that touch you emotionally are the ones that truly stick with you.
Letting go is the only way to continue smoothly with your life but most of the times, it is a difficult journey. The art and literature are meant for soothing our emotions. Loved your collection of poems
thank you so much!
I never knew Edgar Allen Poe wrote poems. I used to associate him with only horror.
That’s a lovely list with many of my favourite poets: Dickinson, Robert Frost, Tennyson etc. salute!
Yes, he does but his short novels are also great! Thank you for your feedback.
I am not a poetry lover but sometimes I cherish poetry too. After Love and Separation are two of my very favorite poems where the process of love and heartbreak is mentioned in depth by the poets, which is really heartbreaking. I loved reading other poems here.
I’ve always found poetry to be so comforting during tough times. I’ve been struggling to move on, and reading these poems gave me a new perspective. ‘On Letting Go’ by Alice Walker especially moved me. ‘Farewell My Love’ by Emily Dickinson is also such a beautiful piece. Definitely bookmarking this!
. “Parting” by Charlotte Brontë
There’s no use in weeping, Though we are condemned to part: There’s such a thing as keeping A remembrance in one’s heart.
I just loved this poem. Enjoyed reading your post.
It is not easy to let go. Sometimes we lose our loved ones to death or life. We always need to move on instead of thinking about what could have been.
Sabrina I just loved the post and the way you presented it made it even more soothing for me to read. First of all, an excellent selection of poems on the specific theme and every piece represents the emotion of letting go of love with so much grace. God bless you.
What a lovely curation! Quite a few of them are new to me and I will return to your post to read them at leisure. Letting go is difficult but not impossible.
I thoroughly enjoyed this post!
As someone who writes in the same genre, this was so refreshing and relatable. I’m looking forward to more of your writing.
This resonated with me so much:
The hardest part of letting go is knowing I had a hold on something that wasn’t there to hold.
Had read a few but many of them I had not read.
I loved “On Letting Go” by Alice Walker too. Particularly the line letting go the confluence of opinions….
My only suggestion: Break such lengthy blogs into two. I feel it would be better appreciated. Having said that, my third week’s post is a tad too long!
That one is a great one, even though I believe the hardest part of letting go is the heartache. I don’t think it would be helpful to break the post into two, but I will consider adding more pictures to make it seem less lengthy. I also added a table of contents for anyone who wants to get to a certain point. Thank you for your feedback.
Letting go is such a tough journey, but your words remind us of the lessons and the importance of self-compassion along the way. Thank you for sharing this heartfelt collection.
As a poetry lover, I’m eternally grateful to you for spreading the magic of these poems. Indeed, poetry has the power to heal and these poets/poems just prove that
letting go is the toughest though we talk of it so easily. I’ve read some of the poems you’ve mentioned in school, but those didn’t make sense then…but they do so much now.
What an unimaginable list of poems on Letting Go Sabrina! I have read a few but that was many years ago.
I don’t know what hurts more, letting go or holding on… but I do know that letting go is once n holding on forever.
Lol… that’s my musing.
These poems made me more sad. I lost my husband at a young age and was getting to living again when I lost my young son. I have heard time is the best healer, but seriously it is not. Healing after loss of your loved ones’ depends on one’s mental strength. I have been through so much of agony but I have never given up and that has got me to still smile and take the world on.
I am sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine what you must have been through. It seems like the very act of not giving up was your source of strength and remembrance.
I’ve read a few of the poems you have listed, especially Byron, Shelley, Yeats, and the older poets. I’ve learnt them in school and college from an examination perspective. Thanks to this heartwarming blog, I’ve learnt to look at them with new eyes. Thank you for introducing some new poems and reminding me of some amazing old ones. Will keep this list for revisiting as and when I need to.
What a beautiful selection. Each of these is so representative of the emotion of letting go and dealing with grief. I am partial to Robert Frost and Emily Dickinson in particular.
Good advice. Hanging on to dead lessons is like sinking. We must let go, move on to live the life meant for us. I haven’t read all the poems on the list, but some were part of my graduation course.